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Learn To Be Attractive

September 25, 2022
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No matter where you are going - for an interview, a business meeting, or a date - the first impression decides everything. It only takes a few seconds for the companion to form a certain opinion about you. But it will take a lot of time to change that opinion.

Therefore, let's find out in detail what can (and should) be done in order to make a good first impression on people.

Behavior And Speech

What we say means a lot in further communication, but body language, voice, and appearance play a crucial role in the first minutes of acquaintance.

Here are some tips on how to behave at a first meeting:

1.       Punctuality. Being late for the first meeting is a severe disadvantage. If you know about traffic jams, leave home in advance. It is better to arrive early and wait. If you are late, find an opportunity to warn.

2.       Confidence. All it goes at a subtle level. Therefore, you should work on it in advance if you are not confident. It will help a little if you imitate the manner of behavior of confident people - straighten your shoulders and keep your back straight; sit on the seat completely, not on edge; put your hands on your hips or armrests; avoid hectic movements.

3.       Smile. This is a powerful tool capable of doing miracles. If you don't know how to smile "on demand", try to remember a few of the most pleasant moments from your life immediately before the meeting - this will make your smile natural and add warmth to your eyes. In general, you will be perceived as a positive and pleasant person.

4.       View. Running eyes or looking away from the companion during communication makes a negative impression. Therefore, try to look into the companion’s eyes every few seconds, maintaining unobtrusive eye contact.

5.       Name. As a rule, people subconsciously like the sound of their name. Therefore, try not to immediately forget the companion's name at the moment of acquaintance. Addressing the visitor by name will establish you as a pleasant and polite person.

6.       Voice. We receive it at birth, which is not always what we would like. You will not be able to change your voice, but you will be able to work on intonations, manner of speech, and diction. Do not speak too loudly. Pronounce words calmly and clearly. And if you start making small pauses between sentences, it will be a sign for the interlocutor that you are open to dialogue.

7.       Information. When meeting, in addition to your name, you can say a few words about yourself - something that will be appropriate in a specific situation. For example, at the interview, you can make it clear that you have previously familiarized yourself with the company's activities and understand where you are going to work. If the atmosphere is conducive to conversation, you can talk about yourself slightly jokingly to lighten the atmosphere. Put questions and demonstrate your interest. If possible, avoid hot topics - politics, religion, and do not ask about things that affect personal space.

8.       Sign language. If you understand how it works, you can try to "mirror" the poses and gestures of the other person to give the feeling that you have a lot in common. Don't make it too obvious. Otherwise, the desired effect will not be achieved.

9.       Compliments. If you try, you can always find something to praise in the interlocutor - voice, smile, clothes. It is not difficult for you, but it is pleasant for a person. The compliment should sound natural, as if "by the way."

When communicating with someone, do not forget that you are conducting a dialogue - you should not talk without stopping. Allow the interlocutor to speak and ask questions. It is better to look not too talkative than to be an uncontrollable talker. Calmness, friendliness, and interest will be the basis for making a good impression.

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Appearance

The saying "meet by clothes" is still relevant, so when planning a meeting, take your appearance seriously. Regardless of what kind of meeting it is, some nuances always work:

  • be dressed appropriately for the occasion and slightly better than necessary;
  • clothes must be clean, not old, not worn; the same applies to shoes;
  • observe elementary hygiene rules: clean skin, neat hands, haircut, fresh breath - all this will speak in your favor;
  • be moderate in the use of perfume, do not douse yourself with it so that the smell accompanies you in a suffocating trail;
  • concerning accessories, choose minimalism, putting the quality first.

A belt, watch, and a purse can tell a lot about their owner, demonstrating status, good taste, and attention to detail. You can find stylish and restrained accessories that can satisfy even the most discerning connoisseur in the catalog of the Pierre Cardin store.

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